Reflection

Do you ever wonder what life was like this time last year, or the year before in fact? I know i do. It pretty much takes up quite a lot of my time. I know that at last years work christmas party i was passed out on the toilet floors at 8.30pm ... not a wise move. This year however i lasted all the night, all the way into the early hours of the morning. I had a good time, but it made me realise how different my life is this year compared to last year. However at the same time, it really isn't much different at all. I know for a fact that there are certain aspects in my life that are exactly the same as last year, but there are some aspects that are completely different. I am entirely grateful for the things that are completely different as they are what have made my life that little bit better to cope with things recently. 

I know that there is still one major problem in my life that i am still struggling to overcome and that i feel like i have reached a never ending road that the same obstacles keep coming up in the way and i can't over come them. This aspect of my life TOTALLY SUCKS and i am actually sick and tired of it. I can't help thinking how much time it wastes in my life and how much effort it consumes within going from my day to day troubles. 

I know that there is one part of my life that is definitely different. 

For a long time i have been left feeling unwanted, useless, unhappy, scared, fearful, but for once i am feeling as though i have a group of people at school and out of school that i can turn to when things get tough. They may not necessarily know my entire life story and they may not understand the turmoil that i have to endure daily, but they are always there to put a smile on my face and make me laugh. I prefer them not knowing my secrets because otherwise they may treat me differently and that would hurt even more than anything. 

There are however still those wants and desires that i long for ever so desperately. I wish these would go away and leave me in peace so i would not have all my time taken up being concerned about it. 

I now know that i do have a future ahead of me. I may be totally unsure of what i want to do with my life, i keep questioning whether i should make the decision and go to University, but to study what i just don't know yet. That is what is holding me back from making that leap. The future is a scary thing to think about, all i can hope is that it will be promising and i won't end up making a bad decision that i will regret for the rest of my life. 

As i am coming up to the end of 2012, i want to write about everything that has happened this year to me. I will let out my secret of this past year so that maybe someone else out there going through this torture, will know that you're not alone. 

Stress V Sleep

The past few days i have had the worst couple of nights sleep ever, i missed going for a swim this morning and then missed my lift to school! In a way i guess it's a good thing as my body is just telling me i need to chill out a bit more than i already do. I guess most of the problems come down to the stress of school work and worrying over my future. I am completely undecided as to what i want to achieve in life, and at the moment i've reached a stage where i feel as though i should give up, yet i know that if i were to do that there wouldn't be the best of outcomes. So in the end i continue and persevere.

I love the sunlight in these photos, and to me it is the main focus in the picture. These were all taken on the way to Scotland. Going on a walk we came across a field of cows. I love this photo of this cow, it is completely un edited and purely how i took it.

I love these two photos because of the way 'Liam' and the cow are staring at each other! But also the way the father and the son are doing a similar pose as they both turned around to look at us.

This photo is of me, Imogen and my mum. We were on a walk in Scotland and it was such a lovely sunny hot day! We were taking the mikey with this photo and pretending to be in a photo shoot. This photo was taken by my Auntie. 

Recently i was looking through my photos on my laptop and they did bring back wonderful memories of the summer that i spent with my really good friend from Germany without whom i would not be where i am today. Even though we both live continents apart i always feel as though she is always going to be there for me no matter what. But also that i will always be there for her! I feel as though she has her whole life planned out and everything that she wants to do is finally getting sorted and is underway. She's applied for Cambridge and other top end Universities in England but also has sorted out what she wants to do for her gap year. In all honesty i am totally jealous of people like her that know what they want to do with their lives. Me? I have no clue! At the moment i am just trying to get through the challenges that each day brings and trust me they are a challenge.

You're Out to Get Me

Paranoia is a fear. It is an unfounded or exaggerated distrust of others, sometimes reaching delusional proportions. Paranoid individuals cannot help but to constantly suspect the motives and actions of others around them and they share a strong belief that people are "out to get them."

Looking for this definition made me feel quite shocked and overwhelmed. I didn't realise that paranoia was a mental health illness as such which made me feel even more humiliated than usual. I know that i do suffer from Paranoia, and i do agree with some of the symptoms listed under the definition. Some of these symptoms are incredibly relatable to my own life and my own journey that i am currently undergoing. For me, being Paranoid has to be one of the down sides of going about daily tasks. School and the being out in public is where my paranoia truly sets in. 

Being around people that don't really know truly everything about me makes things easier, but at the same time i do wish that they knew some of what i am going through as maybe, just maybe they may be a little more considerate and understanding about how they end up acting. There is one class at school that i feel so humiliated and embarrassed in throughout the entire lesson. I don't say anything because i don't want to cause a fuss and i hate it when people feel sorry for me. I can fight my own battles, i have been doing so very well for the past 2 years of my life. I hate it when people cannot accept that i can fight for myself and i can deal with things on my own accord. It just takes time to get there and for me to feel comfortable enough to tell someone to "shut up" or to "piss off." I just wish that i had to confidence and guts to do it now and didn't let my life be over run over this fear of Paranoia.

My trip to the Lake District this year allowed me to get away, maybe not how i would have liked, but it was away from Watford which is all i needed.

These two made this week.
My brother and my surrogate brother. 

Perfection is in the eye of the beholder.

I have never thought of myself as being a perfectionist but i guess when spending 4 days writing an English assignment, hours upon hours on my sketchbook for photography, and also scared to disappoint when running in cross country the other day i have realised that not only am i a perfectionist, deep down i truly am trying to please everyone more than myself. I want to do well, i want to please others, but when trying to do that i forget about me and what affect that has. I guess this would be one of the causes that has made me who i am right now. Unfortunately i don't like this person but i can't seem to change it as no matter how hard i try there is no way i can please everyone and be happy with myself.
Tonight my blog post has turned slightly into a diary post. I have a secret, but i'm scared of telling people as i'm scared they will judge me for what i have become. This has a serious affect on relationships with friends and meeting new people. I don't want to have to introduce myself and have to explain why i've had to drop a year and why i moved schools.
Another reason why i struggle to tell people my secret is because many don't actually understand it, they are shallow and just think that this 'lifestyle' is something i have chosen and am doing it for attention. Sometimes people just need to sit back and think and realise that everyone goes through struggles in life. Some are different and more complicated than others, but also people learn how to cope and deal with these events differently. I turned towards something dark and scary, that has completely enveloped me in a world of torment and confusion.

My Auntie from France took me to London on an evening out. I took this photo in the reflection of a glass barrier. I've always had a thing for St Paul's Cathedral, i have no idea why, but i just love taking photos of it. 

This is the roof of a market near The Shard in London. When i walked through this area of London i felt as though i was in Oliver Twist! 

This is my brother's rugby team playing a match. I was experimenting with the aperture settings when i took this and i quite like how it turned out as it's entirely different and unusual to what some photos look like. 

Because of feeling like this, i think this is why i turned to photography. It takes my mind off daily experiences and life as i just get to be creative.
I've always thought that writing a blog is corny and lame, but writing tonight has been a good thing for me to do.
Thanks for reading my babble.

“Never say goodbye because goodbye means going away and going away means forgetting.” ― J.M. Barrie, Peter Pan

One of my favourite movies of all time has to be "Peter Pan." I must admit i am a total sucker for fairy stories and child hood classics. At the moment i have just started reading Wuthering Heights. Many people would insist that this is a crazy thing to do, and as questions as to why i would bother. I bother because it is something i have always wanted to do, i have always wanted to finish a timeless classic novel. This one is one of them. 

I love a scene in 'Peter Pan' when they fly past Big Ben. Whenever i am in London and end up in Westminster i always try to take some photos of this magnificent intrepid, bold and significant landmark in London. 

I absolutely love how this looks as though it is towering over you and makes you feel so intimidated by it's impressive size and stature. I love the lighting effects round the bottom that illuminates all the features and makes it look spooky. 

I must admit the colour stands out on the black background and i don't think i got the true effect that i wanted when i took the photo, but it still makes 'Big Ben' look incredibly impressive and magnificent.

Believe it or not, this was taken on my iPhone. I think this looks as though it should be a postcard as the contrast between the colours are so great and i love the way the sky in the background isn't just a plain blue sky. 

This one is definitely my favourite of all of them. I love the way i captured the sunlight directly behind the clock tower and i edited it slightly to make it look more powerful and different when you're looking at it. My only problem with this one is the black blob in the right hand corner, most probably of a bus! I wish i had photoshop so i could edit it out. 

I like this one as it shows Big Ben is really 'Big'! The black and white is light because of it being a bright day, but i like it as it is not like normal black and white pictures. 

The quote in the title has to be something that i relate to a lot. 

In 2007 my Grandma, known to us as 'Gran B' passed away from Motor Neurone Disease. I regret so much not remembering the last thing i ever said to her. I have a fear of dread that's telling me that i did say "goodbye" to her and so that is that. Never again will we meet. That makes me so upset and worried. So in 2011 when my Auntie was in hospital fighting Cancer i never ever said goodbye to her as i was always scared that that was going to be the last time i was ever to see her. Sadly she passed away in Christmas. Her name was Nettie, to us it's always Auntie 'Nets Nets'.

Therefore because of these i can never make myself utter the words "goodbye." Instead i used "see you later" as i do intend on seeing people again. 

I am coming an important time in my life where i have to move from one stage to the next. Adulthood. Initially i thought it would be a fantastic thing, moving on and having the independence that i have much needed and wanted this past year. 

I don't want to say "see you later" to the people that have helped me this past year as even thinking about it brings tears to my eyes. To know that they have been there throughout my ups and downs just makes me know and understand how much they have meant to me.

Portfolio

In order for me to take Photography A Level i had to give in a portfolio of photos. This is my portfolio for everyone to view. I hope you enjoy. 

This has to be one of my favourite photos i have taken. I  love taking photos of scenery and landscapes, but in a different and in an interesting light. 

I posted this one in another page on my blog and this is still one of my favourites that i hope to keep using and referring back to whenever i need inspiration.

I slightly edited this one on iPhoto. I like the way it looks interesting through the shades of colours that i slightly changed to make them lighter. 

These two photos are exactly the same except one is in colour and one is in black and white. I really like the black and white one as it is totally and completely different. This was taken at Southend - on - Sea and brings back lovely memories. 

I am not a fan of taking photos of people posing, i love capturing moments like this one on camera and making sure that it is a natural pose caught off guard. 

This is a photo of my mum. I love this one as she looks so beautiful and happy here! 

Inspire a generation

London 2012, has to be one of the most inspirational events that i have ever witnessed. To live in such close proximity to London has made me realise how lucky i am to be able to be one of the millions of people that have experienced the Olympics and Paralympics this year. 

I got the opportunity to experience both the Olympics and Paralympics.

Swim, Bike, Run.  

All Dad's are crazy and so mine happened to drag us all out of bed at a ridiculous unearthly hour to the other teenagers out there (5am) in order to trek to Hyde Park so we could watch the ladies Olympic triathlon. The early hour paid off when we arrived as we got a spot right at the front and on a corner where we could see mostly everything. This was such a fantastic day out as the atmosphere was buzzing. 

Paralympics. 

On September 5th Queens School went on a trip to see the Paralympics. As i am a new student at the school, initially i felt a bit intimidated and scared which is naturally how you would feel around people that you do not know. However the people i met that day i got on with exceptionally well and really made the day turn out so amazing and so much better than expected! It took my worries away also for having to start school next week. Seeing the Paraympians yesterday made me feel so inspired about how they have gone through the turmoil of everything and come out the other side. Maybe there is light at the end of the tunnel. 

Me, my journey and my photos.

This is a blog about me, my journey and my photos. 

My name is Freya and instead of Photography, it's all about Freytography. 

(Corny, but it works!) 

This is one of my first photos that really started my passion for photography. 

Eiffel Tower in Paris in August 2009. Edited on iPhoto on a Macbook, nothing fancy with photoshop unfortunately, but i thought for a novice it was a good job and is still one of my favourites.